If I were in your shoes Iād be more interested in pissing on the graves of Lyndon Johnson and Robert McNamara. THEY ā more than anyone else ā betrayed your brothers and everyone else in this country.
Already done. LBJ was a challenge and took some engineering and spy craft know how. ;-)
I can’t source this because it was decades ago that I read it. All I remember was that one of LBJ’s biographers said that Johnson couldn’t understand why he was not universally loved.
Ditto on McNamara too.