There’s an unwritten rule in our house that we’re not to mention her name in my Dad’s presence (he was drafted in 63 and served 2 yrs Stateside, his unit got sent over later and as he put it once ‘got slashed to ribbons’) he’s told me on more than one occasion he wants to outlive her so he can piss on her grave. I know he’s not the only one by far that wishes the same way.
I was much too young to have fought in Vietnam & I want to piss on her grave.
There's going be a long line of vets for that. She will probably arrange to be cremated.