True.
See post # 110.
Thanks both for the link. I’ve saved it for further reading.
You can always point to things whites have done for blacks of which are numerous. Affirmative action, federal grants, loans, etc. are available for blacks as opposed to whites. You can point to Obama as an example of whites trying to do the right thing racially even if it was really dumb. What have blacks done lately that gives them extra consideration and rights?
And what is the ideal? Either everyone should enjoy celebrating the positive aspects of their racial identity, which whites also have in abundance, or we should all forget our racial identities, including blacks begin a new era without racial jealousies and resentments. You can tell her that instead or at least first.