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But what about those of us who recognize that marriage is an institution given to us by God? Who believe that the healthy and proper realization of our sexuality and the children that come from such a relationship are blessings and gifts from God to be cherished and loved and raised carefully?

What about those of us who realize that being a father and husband is not an artificial creation of a state and its legal rules but an essential part of who God made us to be?

What about those of us who have found a virtuous and beautiful woman, on the inside and out? What about those of us who have a chance to spend the rest of our life and our live with a woman who loves us deeply and absolutely, and shares our view of life and our religious beliefs? Who has an equal and strong commitment to and ability for building a God-pleasing family? Who we know we can trust and want to be with for the rest of our life together?

I am one of these men and I have a such a woman who I am seriously considering proposing to in the near future. Are you really going to tell me I shouldn't marry her? Even if I know I can trust her with everything forever, just as my parents and both sets of my grandparents have trusted each other, for 40, 50, and 60 years together for their entire lives together?

Think carefully about your advice, it says more about yourself than the unfair laws you are criticizing.

Maybe the answer is for young men to have a batch of their sperm frozen, and then have a vasectomy. This would give the male the power over procreation.

If his wife later got pregnant, and he had not supplied some of his special formula, he would know the child was not his own from the start.

Of course, if a male birth control pill ever comes along, it could have the same effect.