It is not an actionable offense. I would say however if these girls are going to possibly put into a "peep show" situation, it is better to ask their opinion rather than tell them what they must do from on high.
Ivan
It's all a part of growing up, is it not? There are some things that just are, and we've got to learn to get used to them. Getting used to them and taking them for what they are makes us stronger.