Minn,
Yours is the most heartless comment I have ever read on FR, or on any message board actually.
It’s obvious you’ve never had a child, or lost one, by miscarriage or any way.
Or if you have, maybe you are just one callous, cold....well.
If you cannot comfort or offer useful advice to people in grief and mourning, then the best thing to do is STFU.
Actually, I have.
Or if you have, maybe you are just one callous, cold....well.
No, just wise enough to realize that obsessing on the fate of a small dead body is counterproductive when grieving a loss.
If you cannot comfort or offer useful advice to people in grief and mourning, .
Some very useful advise is "Don't obsess about the fate of a dead body, or entangle yourself in a dispute about it. Understand that sometimes things just happen. Nobody meant to cause you any further pain. Their is nothing whatsoever to be gained by pursuing any action whatsoever over the matter. Let it go and get on with your life. Dead bodies are, well, dead. You are alive."
then the best thing to do is STFU
Or go to hell maybe.