I’m not sure where you get the confidence to make such a determination.
What do you know about me?
Am I married? How many children do I have? What church am I a member? How long have I been attending?
Since you presume to know everything about me, have at it. Good luck!
I think you know what it means to be a Christian. You are not the only person to have heard what I have to say.
Most importantly, you will probably hear from others on Free Republic who will humbly ask you to open your heart.