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I am looking for the name of a writer (AA)

Posted on 03/17/2012 11:37:59 AM PDT by Sokol

I am looking for the name of a writer (deceased) who wrote about his personal journey with AA (Alcoholics Anonymous). I think he was from New York and may have been a priest. He only died within the past 5-8 years - I think. He was not anti-AA, but disagreed with many of the teachings such as ALWAYS being an alcoholic. If you know of the writer, please let me know.


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To: RobFromGa

Ping


21 posted on 03/17/2012 12:43:46 PM PDT by kanawa
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To: Fiji Hill

Actually we use the term recovered....as in we have recovered from a seemingly hopeless state of mind and body. What we believe is that we cannot be CURED. There is a big difference.


22 posted on 03/17/2012 12:44:11 PM PDT by Nifster
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To: Fiji Hill
I have always wondered why Alcoholics Anonymous uses the term “recovering alcoholic” when they don’t believe an alcoholic can recover.

Because we are always in the process of recovery. It takes the rest of your life with diligence and commitment to stay sober.

Twenty three and half years without a drink because of AA.

When I started drinking it was not a moment that I wasn't thinking about drinking. Now I can days - even weeks without actually thinking about it.

23 posted on 03/17/2012 12:44:25 PM PDT by raybbr (People who still support Obama are either a Marxist or a moron.)
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To: raybbr

42 years last April 28th but whose counting Good job on all of you


24 posted on 03/17/2012 1:20:02 PM PDT by small business owner
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To: Sokol
"He was not anti-AA, but disagreed with many of the teachings such as ALWAYS being an alcoholic"

Ah, yes. Well, some of us have tried to hold on to our old ideas, but the result was nil until we let go absolutely. Sadly, I've seen way too many find reasons to opt out and seek an easier, softer way. It rarely ends well, which is one reason I've kept coming back for 39 years. Had a great meeting this morning. The fellowship is even better than FR. This day-at-a-time is looking good, (but I wish the Zags were doing better against OSU)

25 posted on 03/17/2012 1:26:06 PM PDT by Reo (the 4th Estate is a 5th Column)
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To: small business owner

16 and a half hours here.

(one day at a time)

};^)


26 posted on 03/17/2012 1:28:33 PM PDT by Roccus
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To: Sokol

Father Martin

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joseph_Martin_(speaker)


27 posted on 03/17/2012 1:30:52 PM PDT by Roccus
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To: Roccus

We all started at one minute For most of us it is still a daily struggle


28 posted on 03/17/2012 1:37:51 PM PDT by small business owner
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To: Linda Frances

“He went to a Catholic church, but traditional & dead church”

What does “traditional & dead church” mean?

Were you looking for one less “traditional” than than the one Christ began?

Or, perhaps more “modern and entertaining”?


29 posted on 03/17/2012 1:59:27 PM PDT by G Larry (We are NOT obliged to carry the snake in our pocket and then dismiss the bites as natural behavior.)
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To: Sokol

Congratulations to all. I’m so inspired by all of you!


30 posted on 03/17/2012 2:21:07 PM PDT by hummingbird
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To: Roccus

16 and a half hours here.

(one day at a time)


At first I was kind of miffed at your comment. Then I got it. Cheers to you.


31 posted on 03/17/2012 2:36:14 PM PDT by cornfedcowboy (Trust in God, but empty the clip.)
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To: reg45

“people with small feet,”


Huh? Help me out here.


32 posted on 03/17/2012 2:37:32 PM PDT by cornfedcowboy (Trust in God, but empty the clip.)
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To: G Larry
I did not mean that as a slam on the Catholic Church. I went to Catholic grade and high school. That particular church was not teaching the word of God, was not telling us what telling us, or telling us in God's word how we are to live or asking us to look for God anywhere past the church doors. .....

I attend an Evangelical Church today where I learn God's word, how God told us to live, and where His word in alive in word and deed. No, I too do not care for churches looking to tickle your ears, I want my soul to be fed.

Sorry if I offended you. I'll be more careful with my wording.

33 posted on 03/17/2012 2:57:10 PM PDT by Linda Frances (Only God can change a heart, but we can pray for hearts to be changed.)
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To: cornfedcowboy

AA is a very small shoe size.


34 posted on 03/17/2012 3:04:20 PM PDT by reg45 (Barack 0bama: Implementing class warfare by having no class!)
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To: Nifster

Many people have said (and I sometimes agree) that I am not so much an example of sobriety, but a warning to others on how not to do it.

Early on I bent,broke, or ignored every suggestion in the big book.

I now have three ‘X’s on my chip. I consider it triple x sobriety. In all these years I have learned one lesson, and one lesson only;

“Don’t drink and go to meetings”


35 posted on 03/17/2012 3:05:49 PM PDT by maine yankee (I got my Governor at 'Marden's')
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To: cornfedcowboy

When people ask me;

“How long have you been sober ?”

My usual reply is;

“All day”


36 posted on 03/17/2012 3:08:12 PM PDT by maine yankee (I got my Governor at 'Marden's')
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To: hummingbird

Had an uncle who was an organized alcoholic. He got two weeks vacation every year. Never drank one bit until he started a vacation, then retired to the bedroom where he stayed and got rip-roaring drunk for the two weeks. He sobered up on the Friday before work, and when he went back never touched a drop until his next vacation. Damnest thing I ever saw.


37 posted on 03/17/2012 3:48:03 PM PDT by tenthirteen
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To: Nifster

Your probably right. He just never took God serious until he went to this church. I do know people who went to AA remained sober. My mom,my sister and I went to Alanon. Nice people.


38 posted on 03/17/2012 4:44:24 PM PDT by Linda Frances (Only God can change a heart, but we can pray for hearts to be changed.)
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To: Sokol

I witnessed first hand how hard it is to fight your way to the top. The most compassion people I know are recovering alcoholic. My dad was there anytime day or night when someone needed him. He gave so much, yet he always said he got much more than he gave.


39 posted on 03/17/2012 4:56:15 PM PDT by Linda Frances (Only God can change a heart, but we can pray for hearts to be changed)
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To: Linda Frances

42 1/2 years, by the grace of God. Who would have thought?


40 posted on 03/17/2012 5:24:01 PM PDT by rickyc
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