I hear ya.. Got home at 2AM last night, started at 8AM this morning.. still going.. it’s 11PM now.
Spent most of my day repulling over 2 miles of cable at a location.. hot.. sweaty.. up and down a 12 ft ladder...
It’s not fun, but with the wife unable to work while the gears of government turn slowly (shes disabled, type 1, fibro and neropathy caught up with her) there is not much else I can do.
Well.. I could file chapter 7... But that is not the right thing to do.
My Wife got laid off last Monday and it will be pretty tight around here as well. You are not alone by a long shot.
Take care and don't lose sight of what's important. You and your Wife are fortunate to have each other. God Bless.