As long as this guy is President, all special ops should be kept away from him. Carry them out without his knowledge.
With such a large, important operation being carried out like the bin Laden raid, do you think you could go golfing? We know he had given them the red light on other occasions. This decision was likely made by someone else (IMO Panetta), Obama was informed at the last minute, and he was told to go along with it.
Look at the situation room picture. That's a guy that has no idea what's going on. He's probably still mad they took him off the back nine for it.