Would *you* eat something that you’d had to bully and sue somebody to prepare for you?
I sure wouldn’t.
I go onto gay sites about this subject and find that the gay guys are very leery about eating these cakes and are advising their cohorts to find other gay men to make their cakes. These are not bright guys. Mean, yes, just not bright.
Lol
As a young adult, I accepted the logic of the admonition that, at a restaurant or elsewhere, no matter how sophisticated its reputation, you never ever p*** off the chef or cook! It has served me well.
Better to suck it up and never return, than expse yourself to abuse!