My wife and I both have drawn SS since we retired three years ago, so I don't disparage anyone who chooses that route.
I don't know what you mean by "don't flame me" but I hope you can get you life back together.
A lot of people here flame welfare recipients, I’m yes, testy about it since I dislike being dependent. SSD is different, but a lot of people on here tend to get hostile towards people who are on it.