hah.
I have no doubt that you are correct.
I know that I am not good husband material. My attitudes would get me kicked to the curb so damn fast.
But that’s alright, i have no intention of changing myself in order to be acceptable to a wife.
I have seen the self imposed torture that my brother subjects himself to in order to keep his wife happy, and the mere thought of such an existence makes me cringe.
I would rather remain a feral male.
re your post 130, you’re doing everyone a service. However, your above understanding of what children need means you may find yourself willing to change for the right woman; so I wish you luck. You are your own person. There is no reason to let your brother’s example influence your self-image.