A young man meets women in a couple places. One, church, the other, school. The church attender will most likely get married but they are a dwindling breed. A young man on college campus would be an absolute fool to even acknowledge a young woman on campus. They have criminalized being a man. The young men are confused and socially awkward and find their cravings for companionship through internet games and ravings for sex through porn. Who can blame them?
Let me tell you a little secret.
When I was single, thankfully ten years ago, to the “singles” group at my church. My pastor, who became my friend, pulled all of the guys in for a private talk.
He said that dating the girls in the singles club was not allowed. See, it brings a lot of liability and tension when the relationship doesn’t work out. He would schedule events with other church’s groups as a way to meet other church going women, but the ones in the parish were, if not completely, off limits.
He had been burned to many times, and been called as a witness to a few to many harassment cases. All of which were found to be false.