The Ex bears some blame for not calling her out on her behavior and letting her know it won’t stand.
But I am AMAZED this showed up in the HuffPo!
Calling out such behavior doesn’t work. You’re wrong, you see. Always. Make and win the point? then the argument is about something completely different, for which you are completely wrong about too.
Many of you have never experienced such a “discussion”, no grasp of emotional abuse.
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I agree. I have a good marriage but for a long time I would tell my wife that I was not going to let her sense of anger/entiement run our marriage and that I was not going to live my life out walking on eggshells. I don't quite know how she managed me but we both feel that we have each other adequately trained.