Loaded questions aren’t legitimate.
Indeed. And you don't answer them. When they hand you one, you unload it, then meticulously disassemble it and hand it back to them in pieces without pulling the trigger.
I just tell leftists I don’t buy that they are “pro-gay rights”.
“Gay rights” is simply a cover for the left to criminalize the Christian beliefs that they despise. They are anti-Christian bigots who are trying to put themselves on the side of the angels by claiming a bogus pro civil rights position.