Sounds like it should be pretty digital to me. Either you are stuck in the cult (usually through birth; or maybe just stupidity) and you are too afraid to ask questions; or you have opened your eyes and saying 'I'm out of here'...
Unless they meant the woman has decided, and she's in the process of figuring out how to leave with her head still intact to her body. If the latter - sure, take your time...
Well, it’s not like Holder’s people would be falling over themselves to protect her.