Since you are not clear on who it is that either doesn't want or is incapable of winning, let me say this.
Any country that court martials it's best (US Marine) for peeing on the dead body of an enemy. does not want to win and will do what ever it has to to undermine the will of the troops to win.
The US does not want to win, that is obvious, what is not obvious is why.
My guess to the why is this: the O6s and above don't want to upset their pension by upsetting the muslim traitorous sodomite scum in the oval office.
I was referring to the Iraqis who run and leave behind their equipment at the sight of a smaller ISIS force approaching them. They will never stand on their own.
I agree completely with you on your analysis of our top military not wanting to upset Bizarro.