“Thats what is happening in China where baby girls are aborted and there is an excess of baby boys.”
My understanding from associates born in Red China (but now live and work here)is much of that stopped about a decade ago. Beijing realized that was a mistake.
Incidentally, every Chinese I know and know of came here legally and with the intention of contributing to the well-being of the USA, while building a life. No handouts or expectations of special treatment - ever.
Every one I know came here to get their cash out of China, invest in real estate, and have multiple male babies.