A farmer catches two neighbor boys doing something illegal to his property. He tells them I won’t tell your parents or the authorities if you help me take care of my cattle this week. The boys agree.
To both of you: Did the farmer just blackmail or otherwise enslave these boys? Or did he show an act of mercy while exacting a price for their crime?
The two burglars did not consent to buggery. In no way was the buggery an act of self defense. Any claims of self defense ended when the burglars were subdued and restrained. Nor was it an agreed upon alternative to judicial punishment.
It was RAPE. It was A FELONY.
The rapist was rightly charged, and should be punished in accordance with the law.
If the law provided for rapists to hang by the neck until they are dead, I'd be OK with that.
Your continued defense of homosexual rape is evil, and is in no way consistent with a "conservative" mind. Seriously ... I'm starting to wonder about you.