I am honestly not being facetious when I ask this question, it is sincere...why would you want to hurt him if he looks at porn, NOW, a "habit" is a hard thing to define and of course anything done to excess is not a good thing, but why would it upset you so much?
Read all my other posts.....it may give you a clue.
Hildy,
it hurts. That's the best way I can put it. It hurts a lot.
And no amount of "I really don't feel anything for her" doesn't do a damn thing to make it hurt less.
Why stay with someone who hurts you?