I'm a man, and I can tell you that the married guys I know who are into porn ALL have "problematic" relationships with their wives.
None of them seem truly happily married. Now, whether porn is the cause or a symptom is beyond my ability to know.
"I'm a man, and I can tell you that the married guys I know who are into porn ALL have "problematic" relationships with their wives.
None of them seem truly happily married. Now, whether porn is the cause or a symptom is beyond my ability to know."
Married couples (friends of ours) who we know watch porn together seem to have the most problems in their marriage.
Porn is a fantasy - it isn't real. Expecting the images to translate to real-life sex is always going to be disappointing. Especially for the women because they will never look like those women (even those women don't look like that in real life)
so...people can either learn to love and appreciate the here and now with their real life lover...or they can ruin it by escaping into la la fantasy land.