From the sound of this, the child will not know that she is physically altered in any way. My neighbors have a boy who is profoundly mentally disabled and the kid is getting too big for the sling type stroller that they use to get him around. Both parents are at least six feet tall and I don't know how big ( I say big instead of tall because the boy does not stand)the boy will grow, he's only eleven years old.
I wonder if you think women who were raped while under the influence of a 'date rape drug', and never discovered it, were in no way harmed, since they never learned what happened to them.
-A8