Well, that was pretty brassy for her to even ask you to do that. Like you said, people lose their licenses over things like that. I don't think you were wrong at all!
Totally off subject here, but I had to share this pic that Lee took of two of my lazy cats last night. Bear is on the left and Pearl on the right. Pearl was there first but Bear came up and rooted his way in, then proceeded to give Pearl a bath, then he went to sleep with his head on top of hers. Of course they woke up when they heard the camera turn on, but were too lazy to move. Are they pitiful or what?!