As a trustee/guardian of Dannielyn’s “money” she will not be spending any money with her “grubby fingers” - but overseeing the spending by Larry. Hopefully, by sticking to her guns, Virgie will prevent Howard’s control of Larry, Dannielynn and/or her “money”.
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I disagree. Her motive is greed, it is becoming more and more obvious.
She is probably in high anxiety about DL being in the same house as Howard - the Court has not seen fit to remove her. The paternity proof has not helped move things along YET. During all this time, remember, Howard WAS NAMED AS FATHER ON THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE - not Virgie’s fault.
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Apparently she isn’t too concerned, she is stalling it out. If she was so concerned about paternity not ‘help move things along’, she would back up and be a Grandmother, not try to become her mother.
As time is going on, I am starting to wonder about her role in Daniel’s upbringing as an infant. Did she barge in on his parenting as she is trying to do with Dannielynn and ANS was too weak to stop her? Of course she was more than willing let her mother do the hard work, no doubt. But if she was this damn pushy about it...
This much is known:
Larry was not Anna’s husband but Virgie embraced him as the father of her granddaughter - supporting his paternity claim.
Larry has been allowed by HK$ to spend time with Dannielynn so HK$ is physically ‘still in control’ of custody.
Virgie has seen her granddaughter twice and held her once.
The court has not ordered DL released from the custody of HK$.
Howard K. Stern supplied Anna with drugs
Virgie did not supply Anna with drugs.
Larry was not successful in getting Anna to give up drugs, while pregnant with his child.
Virgie is 55+(?) years old and no-one from her past has come forward to disparage her reputation or character. Even her ex-husband Don Hogan (who she had arrested) supports her efforts.
Many of the pro-Larry and anti-Virgie are troubled by HK$ history of manipulation and the apparent influence he is currently exerting on Larry - using Dannielynn as bait!
I believe that the situation is appalling - but I admire Virgie pursuing justice for Anna and Daniel, by any means necessary - otherwise Larry and Dannielynn will never be out of Howard’s sphere of evil influence.
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anna spent almost 6 years as a stripper, with wild sex parties at her and her boyfriends. That's a pretty long career, if you ask me..would you have rathered that Daniel been brought up in THAT environment as opposed to at Grammies?
Anna could just have well left Daniel with Daniel's father, or Daniel's father's parents, if she didn't care about her son, but she chose her own mom instead. A Sheriff who could stand up to Daniel's father's brood, and who could give Daniel a better life that would be found back in Mexia, where Anna's reputation preceeded her and would have been the cause of jokes and teasing directed at Daniel.
We shouldn't forget that up until HK appeared in 1998/99, Virgie and Anna had a really good relationship... she still called her momma - and called almost every day three (four?) years ago when Virgie had the anyurism to tell her she loved her. Anna didn't come out with the 'bring it on momma' stuff until she thought that her momma called her murderer and she thought she was working with Birkhead to take the baby away. The rest is just HK rewriting history with allegations and insinuations that Anna isn't here to contradict.
If Virgie wanted money, she could have sold her hour-long playdate with DL - everyone else has. Or broken out the shoebox of early Daniel photos with his Ninja Turtle outfits.
I almost wonder if it's a sign of society, where modern families have little contact with grandparents, or mothers speak ill of their own mothers to their children, that lends to the vilification of Grandma Virgie? If it is, it's very sad, don't you think?