You're a woman, aren't you? So am I, and women -- or anyone for that matter -- who live life enabling and then denying such a severe lapse in logic as you demonstrate here, make the world WORSE in so many ways. It's why our founders didn't give women the vote.
To wit: I and Blue Turtle point out that Baldwin was likely not the ONLY adult who behaved badly here, and you immediately insist that we're attempting to justify what Baldwin did. You fail to see, or refuse to see because it makes you too uncomfortable, that obviously no one is attempting to justify Baldwin's behavior. But it is not obvious to you either because you're too proud or scared to acknowledge that the mother may ALSO bear responsibility, or because you really can't help it because somehow, some way, you got short-changed in the logic department.
Again, I smell personal projection here on your part -- maybe you're close to a woman who has condoned her own kids treating their ex-dad with disrespect in a way that they would NEVER EVER EVER tolerate in the kids with regard to themselves.