:-O i didn’t call him a bully! lol i guess i feel like if someone doesn’t want to say how they voted then they shouldn’t be bugged about it. to some people it is just a private thing. (i was also taught it was rude to ask someone how much they make an hour/year, and how much they paid for something! lol we were taught to not be nosey i guess. : | )
Yes, I didn’t mean you. Others did, though.
We also were taught not to ask about pay. And I’m not suggesting it was okay to ask just anyone how they voted.
But one’s spouse? It never occurred to any of us that one spouse would have to ask the other-—it would just be part of the natural discussion in the household.
So, to each his own, I guess!
Personally, I couldn’t imagine being in a marriage with someone who thought it was nosey to talk about who we were voting for.