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“Kinda rattles your faith a bit.”

It doesn’t rattle mine. He is human, humans make mistakes.

I don’t care what becomes public, we will never know what truly went on in the lives of these folks.

I am a romantic, some say to a fault. When love is dead and when love can no longer be brought back to life, does one hangout at the graveyard or move on with life? For me, it depends on the life situations of the folks involved and I doubt that any of us can wisely rise to proclaim that we can possibly know what is in the hearts of another.

So my FRiend, I see nothing to be rattled about here.

I have enjoyed a wonderful life with a beautiful and loving Bride for 38 fun filled and productive years. She has been the mother of our two children and allowed me to be their father. She is the proud grandmother of our 7 grandchildren.

I may be part of why she has been safe, secure and happy for all of these years. WE have worked to give each other great and, at times, wondrous memories and we continue to do that to this very day. She has been at the side of my deathbed and given me the strength to live.

She is why my heart takes it’s next beat, she is why I bother to take my next breath, she makes me whole and I miss her if all she does is leave the room. When I look into her eyes, I still see the youth and soul of that 20 year old that wasn’t interested in me so many long years ago..... though it sometimes seems to have only been a few days that have past.

However, as painful as it would certainly be for either of us, if our love was dead, I would understand our parting. Hanging around a graveyard would not be good for either of us.... if life can’t continue, the you are already dead, IMHO.

I wish those involved in this mess good luck, they will need it. Reality can be easy and complicated, both hot and cold, happy and sad, good and bad...... and crushing when you realize that the love you once shared is now dead.

Have a great day.....