Free Republic
Browse · Search
General/Chat
Topics · Post Article

Skip to comments.

My Daughter Has Published Bikini Pictures of Herself On FB...what is the downside?
07.12.09 | chickensoup

Posted on 07/12/2009 4:26:05 PM PDT by Chickensoup

click here to read article


Navigation: use the links below to view more comments.
first previous 1-20 ... 41-6061-8081-100 ... 181-195 next last
To: Chickensoup

What is her reason for uploading pictures of her in a bikini?


61 posted on 07/12/2009 4:40:21 PM PDT by jla
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: surfer
"General rule of thumb...the less you post on the net the better off you will be long-term"

That is so true. I consider being 100% net-passive every now and then. It’s really something I should do soon. I bet afterwards I will be horrified at what I've revealed. And that is just words.


62 posted on 07/12/2009 4:40:24 PM PDT by I see my hands (_8(|)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 15 | View Replies]

To: GeronL

There are plenty of stage moms and dads that will push their kids into modeling. What few I have dealt with have been mostly sane. I am not wild about working with teens as a rule. What little portfolio building I have done with/for teens have been casuals and headshots. For my protection, I have a camcorder going as my escort.


63 posted on 07/12/2009 4:40:35 PM PDT by wally_bert (My doctor says that I have a malformed public-duty gland and a natural deficiency in moral fibre)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 9 | View Replies]

To: Red in Blue PA

I could not pull her or her FB up with Google


64 posted on 07/12/2009 4:40:37 PM PDT by Chickensoup ("Patriotism is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it.")
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 26 | View Replies]

To: Chickensoup

If she is a conservative- she will have no chance of winning the Miss USA title or an elected office...


65 posted on 07/12/2009 4:40:39 PM PDT by citizencon
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: MyTwoCopperCoins

Try controlling a twenty year old who doesnt live with you.


66 posted on 07/12/2009 4:41:34 PM PDT by Chickensoup ("Patriotism is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it.")
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 27 | View Replies]

To: Jean S

MOM is worried about the pics...How does that make her a “disgusting pig”?


67 posted on 07/12/2009 4:41:47 PM PDT by LongElegantLegs (It takes a viking to raze a village!)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 59 | View Replies]

To: Chickensoup

“To: silverleaf
She is twenty and thinks she’s bullet-proof? I have no idea.

I had a very nice body at twenty but it was for my husband only.

52 posted on Sunday, July 12, 2009 6:38:15 PM by Chickensoup”

You didn’t mention earlier that she was an adult. In that case it’s none of your business.


68 posted on 07/12/2009 4:41:55 PM PDT by Jean S
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 52 | View Replies]

To: Chickensoup

Having just been through the college admissions process, I can assure you that the college boards look for embarrassing/illegal/dumb things. Not to mention attracting the perverts.


69 posted on 07/12/2009 4:42:41 PM PDT by The Right Stuff
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 29 | View Replies]

To: Chickensoup

I donno..... Anyone can take a pic of you at the beach.


70 posted on 07/12/2009 4:42:41 PM PDT by Orange1998
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 60 | View Replies]

To: Chickensoup

Photoshop, advertising porn, you name it.


71 posted on 07/12/2009 4:44:07 PM PDT by Dallas59 ("You know the one with the big ears? He might be yours, but he ain't my president.")
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Chickensoup

Let her know, preferably before any drama comes up, that even though she made a mistake she’s not soiled, or ruined forever.
That way, if something does happen with the pics, she won’t feel like you’re going to say ‘I told you so!’ if she comes to you for comfort.


72 posted on 07/12/2009 4:44:12 PM PDT by LongElegantLegs (It takes a viking to raze a village!)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 66 | View Replies]

To: Chickensoup

Some things just have to be learned the hardway. I was one of those kids, when told not to do something, was an open invitation to do it. I just hope that the pics are innocent and decent, as others have said; she could live to regret them very easily.


73 posted on 07/12/2009 4:44:21 PM PDT by BornToBeAmerican (We the people, ..... never)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Jean S

I am her mom and she is an adult who does not live with me and I am worried about what could be the downside.


74 posted on 07/12/2009 4:45:41 PM PDT by Chickensoup ("Patriotism is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it.")
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 59 | View Replies]

To: Chickensoup
She wants to be told that she's pretty and sexy, even by strangers.

Does she have a dad in the house?

75 posted on 07/12/2009 4:45:43 PM PDT by Lizavetta (Politicians: When they're not lying, they're stealing.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Chickensoup

Yes,I have a 22 year old daughter who has an account on facebook.Her account is private but I told her to be careful because of jobs.They have pics from the beach,hanging out etc..Just fun stuff.Tell her to make it private and she should be OK.


76 posted on 07/12/2009 4:45:52 PM PDT by fatima (Free hugs today :).)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 34 | View Replies]

To: Chickensoup

Precisely. You cannot access the page and neither can the web crawlers which scour (and archive) the pages.

Unless the pictures are very suggestive, IMO it is much ado about nothing.

Many of the people here operate out of fear from having heard something on Bill O’Reilly etc. There is much misinformation out there. I have pictures on the internet, videos etc. It simply takes good judgement.


77 posted on 07/12/2009 4:45:54 PM PDT by Red in Blue PA (If guns cause crime, then all of mine are defective!)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 64 | View Replies]

To: Jean S

????


78 posted on 07/12/2009 4:46:16 PM PDT by Chickensoup ("Patriotism is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it.")
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 38 | View Replies]

To: Chickensoup
A bikini is not complete nudity.

Even Miss America contestants wear bikinis in competition. Women wear bikinis at the beach and are photographed with cell phone cameras by strangers with copies being sent everywhere. Your daughter is not a porn actress just because she posted a photo of herself on the Internet in a bikini.

There is no reason to become hysterical about it.

Lots of bikinis are sold at Wal-Mart to be worn in public so I wouldn't freak out.

Unless your daughter displays a jaw-dropping body when wearing a bikini, she probably won't raise an eyebrow on the Internet. There are literally millions of girls displayed in bikinis on the Internet.

79 posted on 07/12/2009 4:46:20 PM PDT by NoControllingLegalAuthority
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Chickensoup

How old is she? I have 3 daughters and we have the conversations frequently.

Also anything she says on social sites will be there forever. I am completely against all the sites like facebook, etc.

The main problem is we just don’t know where our government will end up and now with the new tools that Obama, et al want to use will try to connect the dots on what people will do.

People need to stop worrying about their personal vanity and they need to focus on protecting their personal information and assets.


80 posted on 07/12/2009 4:46:31 PM PDT by surfer
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 47 | View Replies]


Navigation: use the links below to view more comments.
first previous 1-20 ... 41-6061-8081-100 ... 181-195 next last

Disclaimer: Opinions posted on Free Republic are those of the individual posters and do not necessarily represent the opinion of Free Republic or its management. All materials posted herein are protected by copyright law and the exemption for fair use of copyrighted works.

Free Republic
Browse · Search
General/Chat
Topics · Post Article

FreeRepublic, LLC, PO BOX 9771, FRESNO, CA 93794
FreeRepublic.com is powered by software copyright 2000-2008 John Robinson