Where Have All the Loose Women Gone?

Esquire ^ | 5.7.09 | Stephen Marche

[texmexis best]

Move to Texas. Move your parents too.

[cammie]

I don’t speak Spanish, how can I move to Texas? :-)

[ktscarlett66]

‘My honey, my baby, don’t put my love on a shelf
She said “Don’t give me no lines and keep yo’ hands to yo’self”.’

Gee, now they’re complaining about showing intelligent women who aren’t ruled by what’s between their legs! Who’d’a thunk that people would complain about a lack of sex on TV???

[ktscarlett66]

Oh yes....lol....that servile, subservient, submissive Asian girl thing....lmao. I’ve heard that one before!

[chris_bdba]

I personally hadn’t noticed a change in anything but then I’m also not a single liberal male either. :)

[raybbr]

But that doesn’t really happen in NYC, as there’s a vapid f!ckbunny around every corner willing to put out. So if this Esquire writer - whom I’m willing to bet lives in NYC or LA — can’t find loose women in these towns, it’s either because (1) he’s slept with them all already or (2) he’s the fugliest man alive.

Here's the author...

Also it says he's from Toronto.

[HamiltonJay]

Thanks for proving my point.

Has nothing to do with servile or subservient, has everything to do with not expecting a man to be or behave like a woman or a woman that effectively takes the man for granted and should exist wholey and explicitely for her.

The sense of entitlement that permiates most females in america today makes them very poor mates.

Simple and very common example, man and woman fall in love, woman lets herself go, man tells woman that she’s let herself go (not due to injury or illness) to the point of being sexually unappealing to her.. what’s the typical female reaction to any man that would dare speak this truth... He’s an jerk. (not only by the spouse, but of course all of her girlfriends as well). Not that she should should step up, or make an effort, no he should just accept and not dare tell her his true feelings because she should be able to do whatever she wants and he should take it. How dare he actually EXPECT her to actually take his feelings into account?

Writing off what exactly attracts men to certain women as nothing more than the hogwash feminish lie of “servile, subservient, submissive” is foolish. However I’ve learned not to bother arguing with women who repeate this line, as it does no good, they are lost causes. So I only respond for other women who have not yet been lost to feminist nonsense.

[texmexis best]

Uhaul...just like everyone else.

[ktscarlett66]

Spare me. I have been married for 25 years, I know plenty about how long term relationships work, the joys and sorrows, the hurt that couples can inflict on each other, that like can sometimes wax and wane, the way petty things can escalate
“”AND**

The intimacy and comfort that comes from a long term marriage, long after the initial attraction fades and it’s no longer the flush of a new relationship. We have gone through a lot, including a long term addiction and recovery, the loss of all our parents in the past 4 years and other assorted sad times. We’re still together, we decided we were going to stay together and work through the worst of it.

[Loyalist]

I went to undergrad with this guy. We both wrote for the campus paper (and the underground satirical paper). Same dorm too.

He was one of the people we all knew was going places.

Great guy.