What ARE you talking about then? She recorded him. That is what I’m talking about.
The disclosure. If the recording was made in accordance with the laws of the state (I do not see that the Feds have any constitutional mandate in this--though an amendment establishing the privacy rights of Americans would probably be a good idea), then what is done with the tape is the business of the owner. Even if that includes disclosing distasteful remarks.
If the recording was against the law, then we deal with that and not hand-wring about the rest.