I dunno, I guess as a new father I sorta have mixed feelings. On one hand, I sympathize with those who are disturbed during what should be a relaxing meal at a restaurant and on the other hand I wonder if it is fair that children with disabilities such as autism be denied the same experiences that other "normal" kids get to enjoy (like eating at a restaurant).
I was recently at a grocery store and saw a mother with her disabled teenage son. This kid had that "What's Eating Gilbert Grape" type of autism. I tried to put myself in her shoes and all I could think of was how grateful I am to have a healthy child.
Life isn't fair, Pal, despite what the Liberals have told you. I cannot even smoke a cigar anymore because it might offend someone. Keep your kids away from me if they cannot behave. (My kids NEVER disturbed anyone in adult situations. My daughter was dining in REAL restaurants when she was six. I KNEW she could do it. She first attended the Metropolitan Opera with me when she was eight. And she wasn't the one unwrapping little cellophane wrapped candies.)
ML/NJ
That’s how I feel, heaven forbid if a family with an autistic child have something resembling a normal life once in awhile.
I think anytime I would be bothered by the child, I would always come back to “There but for the Grace of God...”