Welcome to the club. My wife and I took our grandsons (ages 3 and 4) out to eat last week. As we were leaving the couple sitting behind us commented to me how well-behaved our grandsons were. All I could say was “thank you... please don’t come to our house in 30 minutes, they don’t act this way at home”. :)
Two grandsons... a year apart. Do you have any windows that aren’t broken at this point? LOL. In public, I expect good behavior and for the kids to act like little ladies or a gentleman. At home, they can let their true “hooligan” nature come out and vent their steam and energy. I would rather “saints” in public and “demons” at home than the opposite.