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Dealing with the cyberworld's dark side
American Psychological Association ^ | August 6, 2011 | Unknown

Posted on 08/06/2011 1:27:51 PM PDT by decimon

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1 posted on 08/06/2011 1:27:54 PM PDT by decimon
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To: ShadowAce

Ping


2 posted on 08/06/2011 1:32:37 PM PDT by decimon
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To: decimon

Then you better be wearing shades.

Here’s an idea, how about deleting your facebook account and not telling the world where you’re going this evening and what you’re wearing. It wouldn’t hurt to turn off your cellphone gps so the stalker doesn’t know where you are. When people put out so much personal information, they’re only making matters worse.


3 posted on 08/06/2011 1:38:59 PM PDT by bgill
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Then you better be wearing shades.

You flame? ;-)

Here’s an idea, how about deleting your facebook account and not telling the world where you’re going this evening and what you’re wearing. It wouldn’t hurt to turn off your cellphone gps so the stalker doesn’t know where you are. When people put out so much personal information, they’re only making matters worse.

I agree. Maybe Facebook makes people feel like celebrities.

4 posted on 08/06/2011 2:01:36 PM PDT by decimon
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To: decimon

For an organization that attempted to legalize pedophilia, I have trouble taking them seriously on other issues.


5 posted on 08/06/2011 2:05:00 PM PDT by BobL (PLEASE READ: http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/2657811/posts)
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To: decimon

Cheers!

6 posted on 08/06/2011 2:12:03 PM PDT by grey_whiskers (The opinions are solely those of the author and are subject to change without notice.)
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To: decimon

Hey, you opened my webcam. The shades warning was there to protect your eyes from my most awesome hotness!

It amazes me how even the not so young are constantly tweeting and texting 24/7 with every little thought or movement they make. Truth be told, there should probably be more stalkers out there but they’re too busy tweeting about their own miserable non-interesting lives.


7 posted on 08/06/2011 2:14:18 PM PDT by bgill
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For an organization that attempted to legalize pedophilia...

I don't see that anywhere. Have you a citation?

8 posted on 08/06/2011 2:17:17 PM PDT by decimon
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To: decimon

Sorry for you. I am sitting here in my underwear.


9 posted on 08/06/2011 2:26:20 PM PDT by dhs12345
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To: bgill

Agreed. Unfortunately, most people don’t understand the technology and what it can do, what their legal rights are, etc.

For example, everything we post here at FR is recorded. ;)


10 posted on 08/06/2011 2:28:35 PM PDT by dhs12345
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"Increasingly, stalkers use modern technology to monitor and torment their victims, and one in four victims report some form of cyberstalking, such as threatening emails or instant messaging"

States have begun to address the use of computer equipment for stalking purposes by including provisions prohibiting such activity in both harassment and anti-stalking legislation. A handful of states, such as Alabama, Arizona, Connecticut, Hawaii, Illinois, New Hampshire and New York have specifically including prohibitions against harassing electronic, computer or e-mail communications in their harassment legislation.

Also, some states have both stalking and harassment statutes that criminalize threatening and unwanted electronic communications.

Many states may already address this issue by making it a crime to communicate by any means with the intent to harass or alarm the victim. I would say repeated unwanted messages or emails falls into this harassment category, especially if you ask someone to stop contacting you electronically, or by any means, and they do not.

11 posted on 08/06/2011 2:30:52 PM PDT by corlorde (New Hampshire)
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“For an organization that attempted to legalize pedophilia...
I don’t see that anywhere. Have you a citation?”

Understandable, considering that the MSM keeps it embargoed.

http://pedophileophobia.com/disorder.htm


12 posted on 08/06/2011 3:03:25 PM PDT by BobL (PLEASE READ: http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/2657811/posts)
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“In a step critics charge could result in decriminalizing...”

IOW, they did not call for legalization.


13 posted on 08/06/2011 3:08:35 PM PDT by decimon
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To: decimon

““In a step critics charge could result in decriminalizing...””
“IOW, they did not call for legalization.”

Close enough for me. Sorry if I got into a sensitive area.


14 posted on 08/06/2011 3:14:33 PM PDT by BobL (PLEASE READ: http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/2657811/posts)
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Close enough for me. Sorry if I got into a sensitive area.

That's grade school level.

15 posted on 08/06/2011 3:17:50 PM PDT by decimon
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“That’s grade school level.”

Grade school, ehhh.


16 posted on 08/06/2011 3:28:04 PM PDT by BobL (PLEASE READ: http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/2657811/posts)
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To: decimon

Having been stalked, I call bull excrement. How in the world is having nasty grams left on your facebook page, or even threatening text messages worse than harassing phone calls, or having waking up to find someone staring at you?

Electronic harassment may be disturbing, but electronic devices can be turned off. Being physically stalked means you must be constantly aware of your surroundings, and must plan each move to make sure it won’t put yourself in danger. It means losing the freedom to do what you want, when you want. It means having to evaluate everyone around you to determine if they’re the stalker. It means going to sleep at night wondering what might happen after you close your eyes. It means having to consciously not have habits or patterns of behavior that could be exploited. It means always having to listen for odd noises, and when heard having to evaluate what the noise might be. It means not knowing when you’re going to turn a corner in the grocery store, look up from the gas pump, or glance out the window and find yourself in the sites of your stalker. It means “home” isn’t safe anymore, to say nothing of your yard or neighborhood or car.

Upsetting messages on electronic devices? Oh, please.


17 posted on 08/06/2011 4:19:24 PM PDT by FourPeas ("Maladjusted and wigging out is no way to go through life, son." -hg)
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To: FourPeas

It may be that most physical stalking is not as dramatic as your experience. Guess that depends on what is considered stalking.


18 posted on 08/06/2011 5:03:53 PM PDT by decimon
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That may be the case, still assertions that "attacks" in blogs, cyber boards, e-mails, texts or IMs causing:

[e]motional responses to the stress and trauma...includ[ing] high levels of ongoing stress, anxiety, fear, nightmares, shock and disbelief, helplessness, hyper-vigilance, changes in eating, and sleeping difficulties

strikes me as hyper-sensitive, especially when the article says people are most troubled when the "attacks" are anonymous. People being nasty in a blog can cause hyper-vigilance? Really? That's pathetic. How are these people dealing with the normal conflicts that are part life if some unknown person saying something mean about them on-line throws them into such distress?

19 posted on 08/06/2011 6:28:25 PM PDT by FourPeas ("Maladjusted and wigging out is no way to go through life, son." -hg)
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To: rdb3; Calvinist_Dark_Lord; GodGunsandGuts; CyberCowboy777; Salo; Bobsat; JosephW; ...

20 posted on 08/06/2011 8:13:57 PM PDT by ShadowAce (Linux -- The Ultimate Windows Service Pack)
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