You have the right attitude. You want to be taken as an equal, not treated special or fragile because of your gender. Harrassment or intimidation is one thing. But an entire culture can not change just because one female appears.
And that is how it should be-but now that there can be open homosexuality in the military, watch how loudly the same-sex-loving men howl about harrassment, etc. I don’t think the women will-most of the lesbians I know WANT to be treated like all the other guys...