Just have more sex!

Get Physical Today ^ | 7 February 2011 (from archives) | Gwen

[NELSON111]

And there are a LOT of women who wish their husbands still found them sexually desirable. YES. Any counselor will tell you that and if you will not admit that then you really are ignorant.

Let's see...as far as I know we don't sleep in heaven...need to eat in Heaven...there's a LOT of things we won't do in Heaven that we do here. We won't be given in marriage in heaven...but that doesn't make it invalid for the experience here on EARTH.

Face it FABIAN...you DO NOT KNOW WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT. I think I will tell Tiger he needs to use a 4 iron...

[fabian]

A man does not have to be married to know what is best for a woman...sorry...poor arguement.

[BlueLancer]

"Just have 30 seconds of sex and that's it?"

Man, I don't know if I can do it for twice as long as I do now!

[smile]

[NELSON111]

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA

[SeaHawkFan]

Fabian must be a Calvinist.

[trailhkr1]

And you are wrong, many right thinking women don’t care much at all about sex in latter years and wish their men were the same way instead of being hord dogs forever!

Well, you have gone from making a blanket statement that we should all stop having sex after menopause and become more spiritual to some women don't like sex after a certain age. That's a improvement.

Yes, there are many women who no longer desire sex. We live in a nation of 300+ million people. That being said the vast majority of women still desire intimacy, passion and sex no matter the age. Women who do not want sex in later life are not the norm.

Somewhere in your past someone has drilled into your head that women don't like sex. Completely the opposite. Women love it just as much as men but they are generally more outwardly reserved about it. Men can have sex without love. Most women not so. But once they are in a committed relationship/marriage, Katie bar the door. It's not a secret that many religious women are absolute freaks in the bedroom and have the best sex of all groups of people.

Does the sex life of couples slow down later in life? Sure. Health conditions, kids, taking care of parents, working two jobs does that to you. Does not mean the woman does not desire sex but she is just plain too tired or other things in life take a precedence.

Put it this way. I have never met a woman who does not relish the thought of spooning with their significant other in bed, on a lazy, rainy Sunday afternoon and instead would express she would rather be doing "XYZ".

The overall trend in credible surveys show the majority of women in their 50's and 60's are dissatisfied with the level of intimacy/passion in their marriages and wish their husbands would show them more quality physical attention.

Oh, and your notion that we should be like animals and stop having sex after our reproduction years. Wow. Strong cluelessness on basic biology and why God designed our reproduction organs the way he did.

Good luck on finding mate in 2012. I really mean that. Just be straight forward with her regarding sex so she knows exactly what she is getting into.

[wordsofearnest]

That you Kevin, you must be married to my wife’s sister?

[fabian]

no,I am actually a chauvinist! haha...

[Cyber Liberty]

Somebody fetch Laz....

[SeaHawkFan]

In all seriousness, if you want to get married, the problem might be you and not that there are no good women available.

[Thorliveshere]

That you Kevin, you must be married to my wife’s sister?

Haha!

I have a joke in regards to this: A sex group was meeting, and the leader of the group asked, "How often do you guys have sex?" One guy said once a week, another soberly said once a month. The leader nodded his head understandably but then noticed Frank was raising his hand, practically jumping out of his chair to speak. "Yes, Frank, how often do you have sex?" "Once a year!" Frank said excitedly. "Once a year? Really? That's horrible!" said the other guys. "No it's not!" replied Frank, "because today's the day!"

[fabian]

No, the problem is that God has not put her in my life yet! Not really a problem though...I just need to not try and she will appear if He wants that. I have so much going on in my life that it really is secondary to be honest. And I will attract a good conservative women who know that sex is not nearly as important as spiritual love and that one must replace the other for real growith!

[SeaHawkFan]

You have a clearly erroneously view of what the Bible teaches about sex within marriage.

Just what church do you attend that teaches what you believe? I know of a couple of denominations that used to teach such things, but there may still be a few.

[Vigilanteman]

This thread is now entering its third week and still generating responses. Now I know what typical Freepers really think about. :->

[trailhkr1]

I just need to not try and she will appear if He wants that.

And that is why you are unmarried. You will never get a woman with that attitude. You need to ask them out. You need to make it happen..not God.

[fabian]

I cannot write anything to you guys without you misunderstandning it! Of course I have to ask them out and I do. I have no fear at all of women or anyone really. But I need to wait for the opportunities to be brought to me which they do on occasion. Then I must act, yes of course.