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Schools ban children making best friends
thesun.co.uk ^ | 3/22/2012 | HARRY HAWKINS

Posted on 03/22/2012 12:01:52 PM PDT by massmike

TEACHERS are banning schoolkids from having best pals — so they don't get upset by fall-outs.

Instead, the primary pupils are being encouraged to play in large groups.

Educational psychologist Gaynor Sbuttoni said the policy has been used at schools in Kingston, South West London, and Surrey.

She added: "I have noticed that teachers tell children they shouldn't have a best friend and that everyone should play together.

"They are doing it because they want to save the child the pain of splitting up from their best friend. But it is natural for some children to want a best friend. If they break up, they have to feel the pain because they're learning to deal with it."

Russell Hobby, of the National Association of Head Teachers, confirmed some schools were adopting best-friend bans.

(Excerpt) Read more at thesun.co.uk ...


TOPICS: Education
KEYWORDS: unitedkingdom
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1 posted on 03/22/2012 12:02:02 PM PDT by massmike
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To: massmike

insane


2 posted on 03/22/2012 12:03:14 PM PDT by driftdiver (I could eat it raw, but why do that when I have a fire.)
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To: massmike

Living in a wet, cold, boggy, moldy place makes people crazy, apparently.


3 posted on 03/22/2012 12:07:06 PM PDT by x_plus_one (Jihad is an institution inherent to the Islamic system itself; a permanent religious obligation)
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To: massmike

Reading the comments now. All of them are against this rubbish. Maybe there’s some hope for Britain after all.


4 posted on 03/22/2012 12:09:42 PM PDT by darkangel82 (I don't have a superiority complex, I'm just better than you.)
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To: massmike
This is the next logical step after having successfully undermined religion and The Family.

Best friends, God and Family are dangers to communist regimes because they undermine the goal of government being your #1 influence and #1 motivation.

5 posted on 03/22/2012 12:13:09 PM PDT by varyouga
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To: driftdiver
"insane"

Allow me to add asinine and idiotic.

6 posted on 03/22/2012 12:13:27 PM PDT by davisfh
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To: massmike
"They are doing it because they want to save the child the pain of splitting up from their best friend. . . If they break up, they have to feel the pain because they're learning to deal with it."

If implemented on a wide scale basis, the result will be a nation of Adult Children.

7 posted on 03/22/2012 12:13:54 PM PDT by GSWarrior (Click HERE to read entire tagline.)
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I get it now. It’s okay if two little boys have sex with each other so long as they’re not good friends.


8 posted on 03/22/2012 12:14:54 PM PDT by muir_redwoods (No wonder this administration favors abortion; everything they have done is an abortion x)
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To: massmike

People come in and out of our lives constantly. It’s part of life. If somebody’s meant to be in a person’s life, they will be there eventually one way or the other. An no bureaucrat can do anything about it.


9 posted on 03/22/2012 12:18:45 PM PDT by cotton1706
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Hopefully parents are pulling their kids out of these schools apparently taught by psychopaths.


10 posted on 03/22/2012 12:19:07 PM PDT by GrandJediMasterYoda (All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing - Edmund Burke)
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11 posted on 03/22/2012 12:19:23 PM PDT by PetroniusMaximus
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They can’t have best pals. However, they can have butt buddies.


12 posted on 03/22/2012 12:20:24 PM PDT by WakeUpAndVote
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This smacks of them trying to tell the kids who their friends will be...like faggots and such.


13 posted on 03/22/2012 12:20:44 PM PDT by CodeToad (I'm so right-wing if I lifted my left leg I'd go into a spin.)
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Every single time I think “I can’t possibly read anything dumber than that crap I read yesterday”........


14 posted on 03/22/2012 12:21:05 PM PDT by Psycho_Bunny (Burning the Quran is a waste of perfectly good fire.)
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What would Caillou do?


15 posted on 03/22/2012 12:24:16 PM PDT by GSWarrior (Click HERE to read entire tagline.)
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To: massmike

A great psychiatrist, Harry Stack Sullivan, wrote books about how mental and emotional health was predicated on forming best friend relationships in pre-adolescence.


16 posted on 03/22/2012 12:25:18 PM PDT by kabumpo (Kabumpo)
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To: driftdiver

there is a new book called QUIET. forgot the author but it is interesting even if she is a libtard. it discusses being introverted in an extroverted world. even folks who appear extroverted may not be. basically the us indoctrination system from kiddie garden through business school looks down on kids and students who would prefer some alone time reading to being in a group activity all the time. i don’t think it was her intent but it’s scary how the indoctrinattion system does what it does. reminds me of the ‘50s when left handers were forced to write right handed.


17 posted on 03/22/2012 12:28:28 PM PDT by bravo whiskey (If the little things really bother you, maybe it's because the big things are going well.)
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To: massmike

Old Blighty (aka Perfidious Albion aka the UK) is the center of the whirlpool of Leftist thought and practice. It’s goal is to drag the West into the abyss of destruction. This is just another nail in the old coffin.

Time to nuke the island from orbit. It’s the only way to be sure.


18 posted on 03/22/2012 12:29:10 PM PDT by Jack Hydrazine (It's the end of the world as we know it and I feel fine!)
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To: muir_redwoods
It’s okay if two little boys have sex with each other so long as they’re not good friends

Well..... your post, I'm sure, was sarcastic. But I think that it's closer to the mark than either of us know.

19 posted on 03/22/2012 12:30:54 PM PDT by wbill
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To: massmike

Another example of the “collective” mindset overtaking America today.


20 posted on 03/22/2012 12:33:14 PM PDT by mtg
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