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College student's outrage after bouncer wouldn't let her dance on bar because she was overweight
dailymail.co.uk ^ | 4-29-12

Posted on 04/29/2012 9:56:18 AM PDT by rawhide

A 21-year-old woman has accused the bouncers at her local pub of discrimination after she was banned from dancing on the bar because she was told she was too fat.

ABC News reports Jordan Ramos, a student at the University of Iowa, who describes herself as 'plus-sized', says she was with friends at Union Bar in Iowa City last month when she tried to climb onto the bar.

Miss Ramos says she was told to get back on the floor because she 'was not pretty enough' and was 'obviously pregnant'.

ABC reports the bouncer told Miss Ramos the bar was at capacity during a night out on March 3.

She told the network she waited until a few girls stepped off to make room and tried a second time to stand on the platform - but was stopped again.

Miss Ramos said a friend confronted the manager, but he refused to discuss the matter and asked the women to leave.

'There was only one difference: I am a plus-sized individual,' she told ABC.

'The bouncer said "Look, you will never get up on this platform. Go back to the dance floor where you belong."'

She returned to the bar again on April 14, and was again rejected.

'He said, "You’re not pretty enough and you’re pregnant." I said, "I can tell you with 100 percent certainty that I am not pregnant."

'He then looked at my stomach and said, "You obviously are." They knew I was not pregnant; it was there way of calling me fat without having to actually say it,' she said.

Miss Ramos filed a complaint with the Human Rights Commission, but officials told her they could not investigate because size discrimination is not illegal.

The incidents, she said, have made her question her worth.

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KEYWORDS: bouncer; napl; overweight; ramos
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Obviously the bouncers made the right decision.

1 posted on 04/29/2012 9:56:23 AM PDT by rawhide
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To: rawhide

I’m outraged at the number of people outraged...who do I sue? :o)


2 posted on 04/29/2012 9:59:06 AM PDT by Troublemaker
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To: rawhide

Eeek, that’s not “Plus-Sized”, that’s Wild Snorlax.


3 posted on 04/29/2012 9:59:47 AM PDT by mnehring
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To: rawhide

The incidents, she said, have made her question her worth.

But you weren’t questioning your worth before when you wanted to strut on a stage like a prostitute, in public??


4 posted on 04/29/2012 10:00:25 AM PDT by SECURE AMERICA (Where can I sign up for the New American Revolution and the Crusades 2012?)
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To: rawhide

I think I smell a fat girls “movement” getting ready to form. Just another “protest” group as if America didn’t have enough of those already.


5 posted on 04/29/2012 10:02:06 AM PDT by FlingWingFlyer (Dumb, dependent and Democrat is no way to go through life. - Rep. Louie Gohmert (R-Texas)
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To: rawhide

Yeesh! If I saw that on stage I’d flee.


6 posted on 04/29/2012 10:05:18 AM PDT by MtBaldy (If Obama is the answer, it must have been a really stupid question)
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To: rawhide

No, they did not. No one should tell anyone else they are not pretty enough to do something. Reminds me of reading about the toddler pageant girl who said, “if you are not pretty, you do not belong in pageants. She was talking about other toddlers. I think the lady is very pretty. When are we going to stop judging others by looks? BTW, a friend told me about meeting a Black guy with long hair, etc. He was kinda afraid to talk to him but found out that the other man was as nice as he could be. It was yes sir, no sir. Don’t judge others by their looks.


7 posted on 04/29/2012 10:05:59 AM PDT by MamaB
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To: FlingWingFlyer
I think I smell a fat girls “movement” ....

Some sentences.. well....

8 posted on 04/29/2012 10:06:06 AM PDT by mnehring
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To: rawhide
I laughed at this part:

'He said, "You’re not pretty enough and you’re pregnant." I said, "I can tell you with 100 percent certainty that I am not pregnant."

'He then looked at my stomach and said, "You obviously are." They knew I was not pregnant; it was there their way of calling me fat without having to actually say it,' she said.

9 posted on 04/29/2012 10:06:44 AM PDT by rawhide
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To: rawhide

SWEATHOG! Get back on the dance floor and waddle to the music, fatty. LOL!


10 posted on 04/29/2012 10:08:23 AM PDT by carriage_hill (I'd vote for a "orange juice can", before 0bummer&HisRegimeFromHell, gets another 4yrs. Can-> later.)
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To: rawhide

Why are fat girls and mopeds alike?


11 posted on 04/29/2012 10:08:52 AM PDT by central_va ( I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn.)
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To: rawhide

Pretty is in the eye of the beholder.
She is cute and she is chunky.
Because food is served on the bar, no one should dance on it, I mean how unsanitary.


12 posted on 04/29/2012 10:09:28 AM PDT by svcw (If one living cell on another planet is life, why isn't it life in the womb?)
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To: MamaB
No one should tell anyone else they are not pretty enough to do something.

Unless it will drive out all the customers and damage the bar.

13 posted on 04/29/2012 10:10:32 AM PDT by UCANSEE2 (Lame and ill-informed post)
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To: central_va

They reject shallow men.


14 posted on 04/29/2012 10:11:04 AM PDT by svcw (If one living cell on another planet is life, why isn't it life in the womb?)
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To: FlingWingFlyer
I think I smell a fat girls “movement” getting ready to form


15 posted on 04/29/2012 10:11:26 AM PDT by BookmanTheJanitor
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To: MamaB

I think the fact she is obviously overweight made them think of their liability if she were either to crash through the bar or fall off of it. And my guess is she was probably drunk or tipsy. I do not think looks had much of anything to do with their decision.


16 posted on 04/29/2012 10:13:01 AM PDT by rawhide
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To: rawhide
The incidents, she said, have made her question her worth.

Maybe, instead, she should question her diet?

Maybe, instead, she should question her lifestyle and her desire to get up and dance on a bar?

17 posted on 04/29/2012 10:14:16 AM PDT by Washi (Surviving the Zombie Apocalypse, one head-shot at a time.)
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To: rawhide

18 posted on 04/29/2012 10:14:43 AM PDT by whd23 (Every time a link is de-blogged an angel gets its wings.)
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To: rawhide

She’s a full-figured gal all right! Complete with entourage.

But check out the sweater meat to the girl on the right!


19 posted on 04/29/2012 10:15:49 AM PDT by jimmyo57
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To: svcw

20 posted on 04/29/2012 10:16:28 AM PDT by central_va ( I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn.)
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To: rawhide

21 posted on 04/29/2012 10:16:34 AM PDT by jimbo123
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To: FlingWingFlyer
Maybe she could start a Chubsters Liberation Front.
22 posted on 04/29/2012 10:18:27 AM PDT by hinckley buzzard
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To: rawhide

We already gotta pay for their birth control.

Now they’re going to sue to make us help ‘em use it.


23 posted on 04/29/2012 10:18:48 AM PDT by Fightin Whitey
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To: rawhide

Nice pic of the bouncer. Where’s The Honey?


24 posted on 04/29/2012 10:19:06 AM PDT by Paladin2
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To: svcw

It’s his bar so he gets to determine who is pretty enough to dance on it. If she doesn’t like it, she can find a bar that will let her dance on it.

I also can’t believe you think she’s cute and she’s more than “chunky”.

Not sure why anybody would want to embarrass themselves by dancing on a bar anyway.


25 posted on 04/29/2012 10:19:06 AM PDT by beandog (All Aboard the Choo Choo Train to Crazy Town)
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To: rawhide
The incidents, she said, have made her question her worth.

Per pound?

26 posted on 04/29/2012 10:19:35 AM PDT by Crawdad
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To: rawhide

Does she think she is in charge of the place? Does she make the rules?

what an idiot. Let’s raise the drinking age to 30.


27 posted on 04/29/2012 10:20:21 AM PDT by GeronL (The Right to Life came before the Right to Pursue Happiness)
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To: jimbo123

28 posted on 04/29/2012 10:20:45 AM PDT by central_va ( I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn.)
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To: rawhide
She told the Des Moines Register:

Don't people have any shame anymore? Why on earth would she want to publicize this embarrassing event? She's going to forever be known as the "chick too fat to dance on the bar".

29 posted on 04/29/2012 10:21:34 AM PDT by Drew68
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To: FlingWingFlyer

Large And In Charge Movement!


30 posted on 04/29/2012 10:21:51 AM PDT by Jack Hydrazine (It's the end of the world as we know it and I feel fine!)
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To: rawhide

Boys Town lineup.


31 posted on 04/29/2012 10:22:17 AM PDT by X-spurt (Its time for ON YOUR FEET or on your knees)
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To: rawhide

This is hilarious, with Al Bundy. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hVg5QqJoxuU


32 posted on 04/29/2012 10:24:31 AM PDT by CORedneck
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To: MamaB
Don’t judge others by their looks.

Isn't that what a beauty contest is all about?

What about your spouse? Were you attracted to him by his looks?

33 posted on 04/29/2012 10:25:14 AM PDT by UCANSEE2 (Lame and ill-informed post)
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To: rawhide

You make the rockin’ world go round...get on your bikes and ride!


34 posted on 04/29/2012 10:25:26 AM PDT by VRW Conspirator (Article 58)
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To: beandog

Hence, the phrase “eye of the beholder”.
Correct, the guy can have who ever he wants dance on his bar, in violation of dozen of food safety laws/regulations if he wants, it’s his bar.
I agree who would want to dance on a bar, even sadder is these girls/young women/older women go to bars and get (or to get) drunk.


35 posted on 04/29/2012 10:26:13 AM PDT by svcw (If one living cell on another planet is life, why isn't it life in the womb?)
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To: rawhide
"She told the network she waited until a few girls stepped off to make room"

I'm sorry, but if a few girls needed to get off to make room for this one young lady, she HAD to know the reaction she was going to get.

Sounds like she's trying to start something.

36 posted on 04/29/2012 10:27:01 AM PDT by CatherineofAragon (Time for a write-in campaign...Darryl Dixon for President)
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To: rawhide

That’s not a woman. That’s an elephant/
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EHyadlNZnDY


37 posted on 04/29/2012 10:31:16 AM PDT by tumblindice (Our new, happy lives.)
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To: svcw

Pretty is in the eye of the beholder.

Pretty is the eye of the BEERHOLDER.

There. Fixed it..


38 posted on 04/29/2012 10:31:40 AM PDT by goseminoles
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To: Paladin2
"Nice pic of the bouncer. Where’s The Honey?"

LOL.

39 posted on 04/29/2012 10:33:10 AM PDT by Miss Behave (All ways, always.)
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To: rawhide

She could like Scarlet Johannsen; no one has a right to dance on a bar.

And she’s pretty far from looking like that.


40 posted on 04/29/2012 10:33:57 AM PDT by pogo101
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To: central_va

TOO funny, central va.


41 posted on 04/29/2012 10:35:02 AM PDT by Miss Behave (All ways, always.)
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To: mnehring
Eeek, that’s not “Plus-Sized”, that’s Wild Snorlax.

LOL

42 posted on 04/29/2012 10:36:24 AM PDT by bigheadfred (MY PET TAPEWORM (OBIWAN) IS AN INSANE MILITARY HATING LEFTIST)
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43 posted on 04/29/2012 10:36:28 AM PDT by dfwgator (Don't wake up in a roadside ditch. Get rid of Romney.)
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To: goseminoles

She is a 2 at 10 and a 10 at 2.


44 posted on 04/29/2012 10:36:34 AM PDT by central_va ( I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn.)
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To: whd23

45 posted on 04/29/2012 10:38:04 AM PDT by dfwgator (Don't wake up in a roadside ditch. Get rid of Romney.)
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To: rawhide
fat girls Pictures, Images and Photos
46 posted on 04/29/2012 10:40:21 AM PDT by Snickering Hound
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To: rawhide
I don't think you could find a better embodiment of the spoiled entitlement attitude than what is captured in this picture, not just in the girl in front, but in the whole scowling, slovenly gaggle of future single moms. "How dare you tell me 'no'?!?!" The girl out in front looks like she's just finished forcefully explaining that the first rule of lesbian fight club is that YOU DON'T TALK ABOUT LESBIAN FIGHT CLUB.


47 posted on 04/29/2012 10:41:03 AM PDT by fr_freak
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To: rawhide

SHE’d make a good SS chaprone!


48 posted on 04/29/2012 10:42:27 AM PDT by Dr. Ursus
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To: rawhide

Looks like she’s had one drink too many.


49 posted on 04/29/2012 10:43:12 AM PDT by novascotianative
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To: CORedneck

That was pretty funny.

Woman: “How DARE you say that to my FACE!”

Bundy: “Well, I’d say it to your backside, but my car’s only got a half tank of gas.”

ROTFLMAO!!


50 posted on 04/29/2012 10:46:59 AM PDT by RandallFlagg (Look for the union label, then buy elsewhere.)
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