The following link is for your edification as well as for your poorly, misinformed relative.
Note: these fellows at the Ulsterman Report are very, very accurate. I think after reading this you will recognize what a great many Freepers have already surmised.
MILITARY INSIDER: President Obama – “By Any Means Necessary”
http://theulstermanreport.com/2012/07/19/military-insider-president-obama-by-any-means-necessary/
@ MALCOLM X: BY ANY MEANS NECESSARY (4:15)
You really need to start at 3:48. To fight whoever gets in our way.