Not in the least. My GOD expects me to do everything that I can to not destroy myself, and to not allow others to destroy me. We will all have to answer to Him in the end. You should not allow yourself to be a victim. Jesus said, "If you don't have a sword trade your cloak for one." We are required to stop people from destroying us. Two gay men in a civil union getting a $4,000 tax credit on that civil union to match the $4,000 tax credit I get for my "government sponsored marriage" will not destroy me. Allowing a government to strip me of my ability to survive via debt can destroy me. Read into it what you will.
As I said, you worship the material GOD of this Earthly realm: the Demiurge.
Just like you, I’m a lapsed Catholic, but even I know that isn’t the righteous path.