All of what you say is true, but it’s anecdotal, and you are simply not going to understand the law of large numbers if you stay buried in anecdotal evidence. There are also different dynamics for different industries, and perhaps in the software industry, one where working in mom’s basement might lead to billionaire status, the “rule of thumb” is not quite as pure as it is in most other industries.
The fact remains, this survey is totally in sync with what we all know about human nature, and to try and believe otherwise because we are, or are related to, or know, some of the exceptions is simply a dead end realm.
RE: All of what you say is true, but it’s anecdotal, and you are simply not going to understand the law of large numbers if you stay buried in anecdotal evidence.
OK, what does the law of large numbers tell us? Can you show me such studies using large numbers?
and what pray tell is this mysterious “law of large numbers” you keep referring to? Is that anything like the 50 mile rule? That someone who has to move more than 50 miles for a job is better than the one right across the lane? Those are just words to say to make it sound like you know what you are talking about
So I should just give up?
I don't think so. I've never collected a dime of public assistance and I'm damned well not going to start now.
Several resumes out already this week, Job Fair tomorrow. should I cancel? After all, the human nature you cite says I'm doomed.