I’ve never been sold on a “compromise round”.
If 9mm won’t do, use the .45 or full up .357.
.357 Sig, 40 and 10mm are fine for LEO’s but not my idea for home and personal use.
I have the P220 Carry for CCW, and FNS-9, if I need a lower profile.
.45 ACP remains my favorite caliber. I have a P220 but find it hard to carry for CCW. About the largest I can go is a P229.
Hear-hear! (Amen!)