I know it’s a rarely found concept on FR, but I do believe friends can have differing opinions and have a healthy and enjoyable discussion about them.
IMO, you are nitpicking. “Mumbling” is not in the same category as the examples you gave, although I do defer to you as what is common in the aviation industry. Anyway, I think we have beat this subject to death unless you want to have the last word, which you are more than welcome to. ;-)
There’s probably at least 1/2 dozen FReepers living in Thailand and I get the impression a few dozen more seriously considering it. It’s very pleasant where I live - quiet, comparatively clean, uneventful, which is the way I like it.
Good to hear you are comfortable in Bangkok.
Absolutely agree that friends can have differing points of view and should be able to have "spirited" conversations regarding those opinions. One of the most important ways to validate ones thinking, logic and conclusion. And at the end of the day, still have each others back and respect for each other. Lifes experiences bring so many different perspectives.
Take care and hope to meet up here again in another thread