Yeah...it’s clear you viewer were whacked. Tony lives on.
The black represented Tony’s POV....The viewer was conditioned to see Tony’s POV at the point, relative to the sound of the doorbell, and the shot of Tony looking up at the door.
Chase set up the pattern, which he repeated five times. That’s why he focused so much on Meadow’s parking issues. She was the last family member to arrive, and you saw her about to enter, you hear the bell, and it was clear at the moment Tony was shot, he was about to see her coming in. Everything in that scene was there for a reason. Also note that once Meadow sat down, she would have blocked Tony from the shooter.
There are so many clues that Chase left there, that once you see them, you can reach no other conclusion.