I hope she was able to get an annulment. This sounds like the very definition of a justified annulment.
And her husband, ending up with another M to F transsexual - that’s exactly what the autogynephiliacs do - this isn’t some guy who thought he was a girl from early childhood - this is a guy who was aroused by the thought of himself as a woman and took cross-dressing to the extreme. A selfish indulgence of the sexual impulse rather than a desperate attempt to make body and mind match.
You know how the mainstream advice columnists generally say that cross-dressing is a harmless paraphilia, so don’t worry if your husband does it? And they print letters from a wife in a happy marriage who helps her husband cross-dress.
In this permissive and luxuriant age, a lot more of these men are going to take cross-dressing to its hormonal and surgical extreme. Run, ladies, run if you aren’t married to the guy yet.
The advice columnists ought to tell these men to have the integrity to tell the woman about the cross-dressing urge well before marriage, not after.
They were married for years, way too late for an annulment. Just get a divorce.
You are right. You’d think going from male to female parts-wanting to BE a woman-heshe would want a MALE lover.It seems to me, with a wife, he already HAD a female, so why end up with a freakmale( there I’ve coined a new definition for them!) after surgery? The basic problem with these self-mutilators is that they hate what they were born, and they hate the opposite sex too.IF you get past the superficial in-your-face-flamingness, they are self-centered and ANGRY!
NONE of them are happy. They can’t be. Subconsciously they KNOW how they think is wrong and they see every aspect of life through that distorted filter.
I’ve known too many drag queens from my years running a shop in the French Quarter. They dress up as female, and want to be treated as one, but there is a deep, underlying hatred of natural women. Going all the way to self-mutilation is destroying ‘maleness’ AND insulting normal ‘femaleness’. They want to be both-or neither-some kind of hybrid third-sex. They look female, but think male and they want acceptance as a mutable creature that is a new sex.Transgender/mutilation is the outward manifestation of a mind that is so aberrant that nothing can make it happy.