[dr_lew]

Love her and nurture her where she is. Let God take care of the hard stuff.

If I may say so, the first part is the hard part, or at least the main part. Having attended to that, it is the DETAILS that may be entrusted to God's wisdom.

[petitfour]

It all depends on one’s perspective. And maybe it is hard to accept reality sometimes, so we need God to help us do that. I can see it both ways. :-)