Ditto for Mrs. Child. She likes the feel, but it is very hard on her arm & wrist.
She really likes my Kahr CW9, but it is too large for her to comfortably CCW.
After trying *many* 380s, she fell in love with the Sig P238. Carries it regularly with Hornady Critical Defense.
I fully agree with those who say shot placement with good ammo is more effective than caliber alone. Especially for a small woman.
A buddy of mine had a saying... Shot placement is King, adequate penetration is Queen, and everything else are angels dancing on the head of a pin.