You don't get out much then.
There are plenty of “average” male Americans who have not been turned into “testosterone challenged” individuals in this state, but there are easily as many who are not what I consider “masculine” nor “manly”, in any sense of the term, and I'm based in a somewhat “conservative” county down south.
I deal with very many individuals in this state and travel frequently and widely and I am only passing along what I observe, and whether you choose to believe so or not, this state is full of “men” who have not had a “traditional” upbringing, and it is blatantly obvious to anyone who pays attention.