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Please Don’t Thank Me for My Service
New York Times ^ | FEB. 21, 2015 | MATT RICHTEL

Posted on 02/21/2015 2:52:47 PM PST by jonascord

HUNTER GARTH was in a gunfight for his life — and about to lose.

He and seven other Marines were huddled in a mud hut, their only refuge after they walked into an ambush in Trek Nawa, a Taliban stronghold in Afghanistan. Down to his last 15 bullets, one buddy already terribly wounded, Mr. Garth pulled off his helmet, smoked a cheap Afghan cigarette, and “came to terms with what was happening.”

“I’m going to die here with my best friends,” he recalled thinking.

I didn’t know any of this — nor the remarkable story of his survival that day — when I met him two months ago in Colorado while reporting for an article about the marijuana industry, for which Mr. Garth and his company provide security. But I did know he was a vet and so I did what seemed natural: I thanked him for his service.

“No problem,” he said.

It wasn’t true. There was a problem.

(Excerpt) Read more at nytimes.com ...


TOPICS: Military/Veterans
KEYWORDS: thankyou; veterans
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Bemusing article. It's the first time in years I've agreed with the NYT.
1 posted on 02/21/2015 2:52:47 PM PST by jonascord
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To: jonascord

Okay, fine. I won’t thank you for your service but I will continue to anonymously pay for your lunch.


2 posted on 02/21/2015 2:55:23 PM PST by Texas Eagle (If it wasn't for double-standards, Liberals would have no standards at all -- Texas Eagle)
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To: jonascord

“when I met him two months ago in Colorado while reporting for an article about the marijuana industry, for which Mr. Garth and his company provide security.”

hmmm


3 posted on 02/21/2015 3:02:06 PM PST by nuconvert ( Khomeini promised change too // Hail, Chairman O)
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To: jonascord

The link took me to a NYTs subscription request.


4 posted on 02/21/2015 3:03:57 PM PST by Does so (SCOTUS Newbies Imperil USA...)
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To: Texas Eagle
I don't quite get the objection - but I also don't reckon they owe me any explanation.
5 posted on 02/21/2015 3:04:52 PM PST by ConservingFreedom (A goverrnment strong enough to impose your standards is strong enough to ban them.)
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To: Texas Eagle

People really don’t know what “service” is.


6 posted on 02/21/2015 3:04:56 PM PST by Cry if I Wanna (.)
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To: jonascord

So now saying ‘thank you for your service’ is considered bad form, or is that the opinion of just a few, like this one person? We had a whole generation from Vietnam who did not get treated very well upon their return, and some remain bitter about it to this day. I don’t overdo the ‘thanks’ if the vet in question is busy doing something else. We Americans tend to veer on being friendly anyway. Is that really such a bad thing? I don’t think so.


7 posted on 02/21/2015 3:06:09 PM PST by lee martell (The sa)
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To: jonascord
The Times loathes the courtesy shown to any veteran, so take this one with a bucket of salt. Most liberals do. It grates against their anti-war romanticism. The thanks they gave veterans after Vietnam is very well known indeed.
8 posted on 02/21/2015 3:09:27 PM PST by Billthedrill
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To: Texas Eagle
"Okay, fine. I won’t thank you for your service but I will continue to anonymously pay for your lunch."

I didn't earn it.

I joined the Marines to go to Da'Nam. I spent four years dusting radios as an MOS 2800. The closest I ever got was a 96 liberty R&R in Taiwan. Half of my boot camp platoon are on the Wall.

When I got out and returned to college, if anyone asked, I said I had spent 4 years in California. It was easier than explaining the Corps.

(For those who don't know, The Corps didn't give you a choice of MOS, except whether you wanted the Wing...)

9 posted on 02/21/2015 3:12:19 PM PST by jonascord (It's sarcasm unless otherwise noted...)
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To: lee martell

“Long past time for US Citizens to start keeping video and film track of these jihadi gyrations. As armed citizenry, we must be prepared ...”

Amen brother. Our Vietnam vets were poorly treated compared to those of other conflicts. Therefore, I make it a point to indeed thank them for their service and also mention our nation still has an unpaid debt to them. I could care less whether anyone either on this forum, or the public at large thinks in bad form.

I wore at uniform many years ago as well, but my service pales in comparison to those who fought communists back in the 50s - early 70s. These are the vets who may have saved me from having to fight communists in the 80s and early 90s. I’m forever grateful to them.


10 posted on 02/21/2015 3:16:29 PM PST by 82nd Bragger (Count to four except when in a helicopter)
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"The thanks they gave veterans after Vietnam is very well known indeed."

It's worth a thought that it wasn't until after I was out that it occurred to me that we were smuggled back into the country, in '73.

11 posted on 02/21/2015 3:18:08 PM PST by jonascord (It's sarcasm unless otherwise noted...)
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To: jonascord

I was told at Travis to change into civilian clothing before going to SFO.


12 posted on 02/21/2015 3:21:58 PM PST by Billthedrill
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To: jonascord

I served 20 years, 1 month and 18 days in the Corps and I am also a veteran of The Persian Gulf War (OPS: Desert Shield/Desert Storm). I sometimes wear one of my many “USMC” ball caps out in public, not so much to garner thanks, but in hopes of meeting ANY other veteran and chew the fat.

I have in the past felt uncomfortable when I got a “Thank you for your service,” particularly from non-veterans, but recently discovered that I can return the thanks by saying: “And I thank YOU for your support!” It kind of levels things and the grateful folks seem to feel good about that return of thanks.


13 posted on 02/21/2015 3:26:34 PM PST by Joe Marine 76 ("Honor is the gift a man gives to himself." ~ Rob Roy MacGregor)
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To: Joe Marine 76

I’m stealing that. :-)


14 posted on 02/21/2015 3:29:56 PM PST by Billthedrill
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To: Billthedrill

Go for it Bill... You’re welcome!


15 posted on 02/21/2015 3:33:38 PM PST by Joe Marine 76 ("Honor is the gift a man gives to himself." ~ Rob Roy MacGregor)
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To: ConservingFreedom

Both my son and I, veterans of multiple Infantry deployments to Iraq, felt (him more than me) embarrassed (or maybe humbled) to be the recipient of “Thank you for your service”. It took a good bit of adjustment, and finally started responding “and thank you very much for your support”. We didn’t feel like we had done anything special.

Late one night, well into a bottle of Jamesons, we talked through what our elder brothers from Vietnam experienced, and while we were a bit uncomfortable, it was far better than they got.

To this day, we make it a point to thank every Vietnam Vet we meet for guiding and assisting us through this generation’s war and after-effects.

If you are a Vietnam Vet and read this, THANK YOU!


16 posted on 02/21/2015 3:38:45 PM PST by AbnSarge
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To: Joe Marine 76; Billthedrill

Me too. Perfect and honest.


17 posted on 02/21/2015 3:41:03 PM PST by Hoboken (A billion broken eggs...no omelette.)
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To: Billthedrill

Bill - I noted on your information page that you are a “Constitutional conservative.” Check out: (1) Article V of your “pocket Constitution” about the Convention of States which is being put together, and (2) the web site “conventionofstates.org for further info.

We had a speaker at our regular monthly meeting this past Thursday night. The Convention of States is getting a lot of attention and gaining a lot of steam. Please pass along to our like-minded!

And thank you for service, “Shipmate!”


18 posted on 02/21/2015 3:42:50 PM PST by Joe Marine 76 ("Honor is the gift a man gives to himself." ~ Rob Roy MacGregor)
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To: AbnSarge

Amen Sarge! My late father (USN) and two older brothers (USA & USN) are all Vietnam Veterans and I feel much of what they did and experienced paved the way for me.


19 posted on 02/21/2015 3:46:40 PM PST by Joe Marine 76 ("Honor is the gift a man gives to himself." ~ Rob Roy MacGregor)
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To: jonascord

We have had trouble filling the ranks for many years even since 9/11, and I agree that the farther from the military that American men get, the more patriotic they sound in praising those who serve.


20 posted on 02/21/2015 3:46:46 PM PST by ansel12 (Palin--Mr President, the only thing that stops a bad guy with a nuke is a good guy with a nuke.)
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