Women:
#1. DON’T even consider men who are ‘losers’. If they don’t even have a job, WHERE are you meeting them? It’s probably the wrong place.
I hear this from SOOOO many singles - Can’t find a ‘decent’ one... in the bars and party places.
Of COURSE you won’t!
People want decent, honorable people but won’t go to the places you FIND those kind of folks.
If you fish where sewage is dumped, you’re gonna get carp.
Chances are the ones complaining are one of three types:
1. Blimpasauruses
2. Obnoxious and with two or more kids by two or more baby daddies who you don't want to pay for
3. Sluts with at 20+ knob count who are sterile from repeated gonnorhea infections
You’re right, but I’ve met some lovers in some unconventional places. In fact, I met my first serious boyfriend at a funeral home. My aunt had passed away, and this guy was a grandson to my uncle from his first marriage. My mother loved him because he was a college graduate and had a good career, Being a college graduate was a big deal in my small, blue collar hometown.
Well, it turned out this guy was an alcoholic and a mean drunk to boot. I didn’t need that aggravation in my life, so I ditched him.
About a year or so later, I saw him on the street. By then he had married, so I congratulated him on his nuptials. He said, “thank you. Do you want to go out sometime?” The guy was fooling around on his new bride. Uh.....no......
Many years later, he was killed in an automobile accident — he was driving drunk. By then he had lost his really good job and was working as a sales representative for a pest control company. I heard he left his wife in debt and alone to raise two young sons.
My mother couldn’t understand why I had let this “good catch” get away. All I can say is I’m glad I did.